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“Rechoose and Be Free” Homily for September 13/14th

The Feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross

Jesus started off much like many of us in this world: bound in swaddling clothes, held in a mother’s protective embrace, placed in a wooden baby bed, vulnerable, weak and dependent. Why would our all-powerful God submit to such a state? In order to give us a chance a chance to rechoose communion with God.

Victor Frankl in his book, “Man’s Search for Meaning,” says the following: “Everything can be taken from a man but one thing, the last of the human freedoms, to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own response.”

Back before we could even record history, in the beginning of our existence with God, humanity was faced with the circumstance of being utterly dependent on God. (Sort of like a baby in its mother’s arms.)

Faced with this reality that we were not independent creatures, not our own gods, we fell for the temptation to grasp at becoming equal to God. We chose to respond to our discomfort at being dependent by saying “no” to God’s will.

Thus, sin entered the world, and we broke our communion with God.

Now some Christian theologians over the years have incorrectly taught that this “no” on humanity’s part eliminated any point of contact between God and us.

Protestant theologian Karl Barth put it this way:

“There can be no continuity between revelation and creation since creation as destroyed by sin reveals only God’s “no.”. The hidden God of Christian revelation can never be discovered directly in human history or experience, both of which are deeply scarred by sin.”

When these theologians look at humanity the first thing they see is sin. Not so with us Catholics.

While we do not minimalize sin and its power to kill our relationship with God and one another, we Catholics also do not see it as the first principle of our existence with God. Rather we believe that simply by virtue of being created we are fundamentally graced. We believe we still have an innate capacity to respond to God’s compassion, to say “yes” to God’s offer of communion with Holy Trinity.

We Catholics believe God creates us with the freedom to choose our responses, yet God also loves us beyond our imagining and wants us to be in communion with him.

So how can God preserve both our freedom to say, “yes or no” and God’s desire to reconnect us in communion?

In the book, “The Cross in Our Context,” theologian Douglas Hall explains: “What God is determined to save is not an abstraction and not a savable part of the whole, but the real world in its inseparable oneness and interrelatedness. [God wants to save it all!]  A God who simultaneously wills the existence of free creatures and the preservation and redemption of the world is a God who will not impose rectitude upon the world, but labor to bring existing wrong into the service of the good; a God, in short, who will suffer.”

So, in plain speak what does this mean?  Jesus’ binding of swaddling clothes is replaced by the binding his hands by the temple guard. The wood of Jesus’ baby crib is replaced by the wood of the cross. The protective embrace of his mother Mary at Bethlehem becomes her sorrowful embrace at Calvary. And the vulnerability of a new life is replaced by the self-emptying sacrifice of his life on a cross.

Then on the third day the shackles of our ancient ‘no” to God are shattered by the power of God’s yes to Jesus’ trust, God’s yes to Jesus’ obedience, God’s yes to Jesus’ self-offering.

Through resurrection Jesus reconnects our humanity with the living communion of God!

Joined to Jesus Christ by baptism we too have the opportunity to reconnect to God. This is what we celebrate and renew every time we gather at this altar to pray.

Louisville priest, Fr Ron Knott, once wrote: “Our first response does not have to be our life response. Truly the last great freedom is the ability to choose one’s attitude in any set of circumstances, to choose or rechoose one’s own response.

It has been said, “You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are at and change the ending.”

Through the cross of Jesus Christ, we are given a chance to rechoose communion with God, to change our ending. Rechoose and be free!

Holy Family Free Health Fair, Sunday Sept 28th

The Community Health Ministry at Holy Family invites you to attend a free community event on Sept 28, 2025, at Holy Family Saffin Center (3938 Poplar Level Rd. 40213) from 11am-3pm. Over 65 exhibitors are scheduled to attend. Health screenings, Education, Community resources. Flu/Covid Vaccines by Walgreens, Medication Disposal, Norton Healthcare, Baptist Health, U of L Health, Gun Safety, Distractive Driver Simulations, Free Chair Massages, Narcan, Free Refreshments, Giveaways, Door Prizes and so much more. Collecting Non-perishable food items and new or lightly used shoes for Waterstep. All ages are welcome. Mammograms & Women Exams provided by Norton Wellness mobile clinic. (Call 502-899-6842 to schedule mammograms).

Catholic Women’s Conference – November 8th

The SFX Women’s Retreat Ministry invites women 16 years and older to participate in the Catholic Women’s Conference sponsored by the Archdiocese of Louisville. The conference/retreat will take place from 8:30AM – 2:30PM on November 8, 2025 at Holy Trinity Parish in St. Matthews. This is a wonderful way to spend time with women from our own parish as well as the surrounding faith community.

With a theme of “Wonderfully Made”, this conference offers Mass, Adoration, Confession, Speakers, Vendors, and more! The cost is $50 per person and includes lunch. Registration is open now!

Learn more or register on-line HERE.

Monday Morning Bible Study Starts Sept 22nd

Please join us for a 6-week bible study on finding Faith, Hope and Love in the Bible. Group will meet on Mondays @ 9:00 am in the Xavier Center double meeting room beginning September 22, 2025. Books may be purchased at www.litpress.org   A limited number of books will be available for $11 from the parish office. Please contact Sharon Mann to RSVP (sharonfaithhopelove@gmail.com).

Catholic Higher Education Collection – Sept 20th/21st

On the weekend of September 20th/21st parishes across the archdiocese will take up the annual collection for Catholic higher education. Catholic colleges and universities strive to form students in the spirit of faith and educate them in the richness of the Catholic intellectual tradition. This collection supports the Catholic University of America as well the two Catholic universities in our Archdiocese – Bellarmine University and Spalding University.

Make a donation by using the special collection envelope provided in your mailed bundle or mark a blank envelope as “Catholic Higher Education” and drop in the collection basket at mass.

Young Adult Mass and Catholic Networking Fair – Oct 8th

The Young Catholic Professionals Louisville Chapter, in partnership with the Office of Youth and Young Adults, is hosting a Young Adult Mass and Community Networking Fair on Tuesday, October 8, from 6:00 to 9:00 p.m. at the Cathedral of the Assumption (433 S. Fifth Street). Archbishop Shelton Fabre will preside at the Mass, which begins at 6:00 p.m. The networking fair will immediately follow in the cathedral undercroft.

Women’s Club Christmas Bazaar – Nov 8, 2025

Vendor Registrations for the 2025 Women’s Club Christmas Bazaar are still being accepted.

Booth rental is $45 through 9/30/2025 (increasing to $55 on 10/1/25) and includes one 8ft and one 6ft table. Booths are reserved on a first-come, first served basis upon receipt of a completed Application, signed Facility Usage/Indemnity Agreement, and Payment.

The Application and Usage Agreement must be mailed or brought to the St. Francis Xavier Office. Payment can be made by check (included with application) or by credit card through the GiveSmart link below.

For more information contact Regina King (regina_king53@twc.com) or Ann Shelton (tallgirl54@aol.com).

Seeking Extraordinary Ministers of Holy Communion

Our St. Francis Xavier Church is in need of additional Eucharistic Ministers. If you have heard the calling to serve your church community in this capacity, please plan to attend one of the upcoming training opportunities presented by the Archdiocese of Louisville.

  • Monday, September 15, St. Paul, 6:00-8:00 p.m.
  •  Monday, October 13, St. Michael, Fairfield, 6:30-8:30 p.m.
  •  Tuesday, October 21, St. Leonard, 12:30-2:30 p.m.
  •  Wednesday, November 5, 2025, St. Elizabeth Ann Seton, 6:00-8:00 p.m.
  •  Wednesday, November 19, 2025, All Saints, Taylorsville 6:30-8:30 p.m.

You can register for a session on-line with the Archdiocese through the link below.

SFX 14th Annual Golf Scramble – September 14th

Save the Date!

The SFX 14th Annual Golf Scramble will be held on Sunday, September 14th at The Crossings in Brooks, KY. Play will Shotgun Start at 2PM, check-in will open at 12:30PM with lunch at 1PM.

The Cost is $70 per player and includes green fee, cart, lunch, and door prize ticket. Register as a single player or as a foursome through the linked button below.

Prefer to Register by mail or through the office? Download the registration form below.

If you are interested donating to the raffle or sponsoring a hole at the event, a downloadable copy of the sponsorship form is linked below. If you are able to help plan or work this event, please reach out to wende.aubrey@sfxmw.com or call the office.

Margaritas with Mary – New Book Starting in September

Meeting DateReading SchedulePages
September 23rdIntroduction – Sarahxi – 23
October 28thLeah & Rachel – Rahab25-66
November 18th*Deborah – Hannah67-104
December 16th*Esther – Postscript105-135
* Date moved due to Holiday

Looking for the book? Check these links/locations:

NEW:USED:
Christian BookAbe Books
AmazonWorld of Books
Barnes & NobleBetter World Books
Thrift Books

Diaper Bank Collection in September

Our parish will be joining with other local churches in support of a new ministry at the Calvary Christian Center called “Diaper Bank“. This ministry strives to supply diapers, both baby and adult, throughout the year to families in need.

If you would like to donate to this ministry, please place diapers (opened or unopened packages) in the bins in gathering space of church during the month of September.

The flyer below details the mission of this ministry. If you would like to volunteer to help with collection and/or distribution of diapers, you can reach out to Maria Broyles with the Diaper Bank Ministry at mb1959lb@gmail.com.